Friday, November 30

Raising Kids with Technology


This won't be a long post, but it's a topic that is certain worthy of more thought.

Al Mohler posted a blog about the rise of technology use (and Christmas gifts) for toddlers and small children. He raises some good questions about whether or not this is a good thing for kids, and the responsibility of parents to guard their kids from excessive desires and things they don't really need:

Children should be respected as children and not reduced to younger consumers. Parents must protect their children from growing up too fast -- such as the "Kids Getting Older Younger" syndrome.

Keep the family computer in the kitchen or the family room where use can be monitored and limited. Don't let your kids -- all the way from toddlers to teenagers -- spend too much time in front of a screen.

Parents must learn to say no, and to make it stick. There is something downright creepy about the thought of a toddler or preschooler who feels more at home in front of the computer screen than on the playground.

It's a challenge, to be sure. Jen and I have already been talking about issues like television and how convenient it can be to have kids just watch a video so you get a break. There are some benefits to technology, to be sure, and I use a computer everyday...so I'm not a Luddite or anything like that. At the same time... I think it's important to be aware of the effect that technology and consumer-driven "need" has on our kids.

Thursday, November 29

Random Thoughts on the CNN-YouTube Debate

If you are like most people, you probably could care less that there was a Republican debate last night. I almost forgot until I started switching channels.

In a nutshell, here is what I thought.

Romney and Giuliani.... whoa. I have no idea why people think these two guys are the best chance of beating Hillary Clinton. Romney was defensive and almost incoherent at times. Giuliani has such a narrow focus when he talks. It's all about New York this, New York that. And he is pretty good at avoiding questions. Even leaving aside moral and religious issues for a moment, I just don't like either of them. They strike me as your typical flip-flop politicians who don't have a single conviction to stand on.

Ron Paul. Positively, he has convictions (which I don't necessarily agree with)...but he doesn't stand a chance of getting elected. And I wonder if he really understands the reality of the world we live in. He basically argued that the reason for 9/11 was that we are occupying Muslim lands (in Saudi Arabia). In other words, it's our fault, so let's just pull out.

Thompson and Hunter...well, no offense to my friend Marc, but I don't think either of these guys really have a chance. Thompson did fine for the debate, but he didn't really strike me as that exceptional, and I don't think the majority of voters even know who Hunter is...

That brings me to the two candidates who I think really stand out. McCain and Huckabee. I'm not a fan of McCain, but I have to say that he did a great job in the debate. But Huckabee...I thought he did great. I have to admit I'm a little biased, but to be honest, he seemed the most "Presidential" of the candidates. He was honest, straightforward, reasonable, affable, and funny. His comments about Jesus being too smart to run for politics and about sending Hillary to Mars were great.

Why can't Republicans wake up and see that they've got an amazing candidate sitting right in front of them? And he's Chuck Norris approved (they even got a shot of Chuck during the debate).

Anyway, those are my random thoughts from last night.

Wednesday, November 28

Another Great Adoption Article

Here is another great adoption article, along the same lines as the others I've been mentioning.

More Info on Atheist Movie

Christianity Today has a nice review / overview of the upcoming movie, The Golden Compass, by avowed atheist Philip Pullman.

Doesn't sound too kid-friendly to me.

Wednesday, November 21

Followup to Recent Bell Tour

Here is another review of Rob Bell's recent tour, which I posted on a few days ago.

Again, the tour is supposed to be about how through Jesus, God has sent us a new message: "the gods aren't angry." Depending on what you mean by that, it can actually be a true statement. But as you will see in this review, it appears that Rob is going to great lengths to avoid talking about the cross and our need to trust in Christ to be saved from the anger of God.

As noted by this reviewer, myself, and countless others, what Rob Bell and many others today are preaching is essentially classic liberal theology. It's a justification based, not on the cross of Jesus Christ, not on an imputation of my sin to Christ and his righteousness to me, but on the basis of my works (which may or may not be Spirit-inspired, depending on who you talk to). It doesn't like to talk about God's hatred of sin, or really much about sin at all.

Should the lives of Christians lead to the fruit of good works? Certainly. But that fruit can only come from the cross. The only fruit that glorifies God is the fruit produced when we are justified by the work of Christ, who turns away God's anger and wrath by becoming sin for us, so that in him we become the righteousness of God.

Tuesday, November 20

3 Day Roundup

Again, I've been preoccupied with life (which is good), my family, and my research paper (all good as well). Tonight I had a bit of time to review the news, and here are some things of note:

1) This review ofAlister McGrath's new book, The Dawkins Delusion, is pretty interesting...I think the reviewer does a good job of getting at the central arguments in the book, against Dawkins (a neo-Darwinist). But he also does a good job at pointing out where McGrath misses a prime opportunity to show the flaws in a materialist worldview that tries to make claims about the existence of rationality.

2) Here is an interview with Dr. Dave Garner of Westminster Seminary, who wrote his PhD dissertation on the biblical theme of adoption in Christ. He gives some great teaching on the subject and then at the end gets at some implications for our own adoptions of children. I especially loved this paragraph:

Created in God’s image and restored to that image by the redemptive work of the Son of God, we, as God’s children, are privileged to emulate our Father. Imitating our Father is truly a form of worship, and the decision to adopt a child is a crisp Xerox of our Father’s love for us. What a great blessing to seek out a child, whose life is charted for misery, and to bring that child into the warmth, security, and discipline of a Christian home. What a privilege to intervene – to reverse inevitable circumstances of abuse, neglect, or worse – and to transfer a child from darkness to light. What a clear picture of God’s adoptive grace to us: to propel our own adopted child on the pathway of holiness, to bring blessing to our own heavenly Father!
You can find this quote and others at the bottom of the article.

3) This site has a "cultural" optical illusion. It's a picture that reveals a bit of our cultural bias in interpreting an image. Interesting... I'll probably use it when training people for mission trips.

4) If you like ventriloquism, this guy gives a pretty good twist on it. If you're up for a five minute video clip, here is a longer one from Letterman.

5) Justin Taylor has put together a nice set of links to resources dealing with recent discoveries in stem cell development that do not involve creating and destroying embryos.

6) Tim Challies has a great review of a book on relationships that comes from a complementarian perspective on gender. It looks wonderful! It's called Doing Things Right in Matters of the Heart and its by John Ensor. Adding it to my wishlist!

7) The Shepherd's Scrapbook has a preview, review, and quote from the author on the new movie version of the atheist-authored book series, The Golden Compass. Probably not one for the kiddies!

Sweet Ad for Huckabee

Well, I may not have said this yet, but (as a citizen, not speaking as a pastor) I've been pretty impressed by Mike Huckabee, who is running for the Republican nomination.

This ad sealed the deal.

Thursday, November 15

Guys Can Fix Anything

If you're looking for a laugh today, check out this reprint of a Dave Barry column on the CBMW blog. It's about the differences between men and women in dealing with repairs to the home. Unfortunately, it only highlights a tendency that I find in myself--that these situations are some of the best ways God uses to reveal my sin, pride, and unwillingness to admit that I don't have a clue what I'm doing.

Rob Bell Review

Fellow blogger Justin Buzzard in San Francisco attended Rob Bell's recent tour, the gods aren't angry, and posted a thoughtful, discerning review of the night. For those who don't know who Rob Bell is, he is the pastor of a large church here in Grand Rapids called Mars Hill. I used to go hear Rob speak in the old days and really enjoyed him. Some of his early messages really challenged me. I went on a mission trip with his church. But ever since he published his first book, Velvet Elvis, I've had some serious concerns about his message.

Justin gets to the real meat of his concern with Rob's message here:

Though Rob spoke articulately and personally about the guilty, shameful, inadequate feelings we all have and the false ways we go about dealing with those feelings, Rob never articulated humanity's sin problem. As Rob told the story of the Bible, he left out a central plotline. He left out a central doctrine. He left out the plotline of the Fall, the doctrine of sin, the tragedy of humanity's severe separation from God due to the distance between God's holiness and our sin. As Rob sought to convey the message of the Bible, even the climax of the Bible--Jesus' sacrifice on the cross, he failed to articulate the truth of the human condition, the complexity and depth of what's wrong with the human heart--where all of our guilty, shameful, inadequate feelings come from: our separation from a loving, holy God due to our massive sin problem.

It's evident to me that Rob Bell highly values study of the Scriptures. But it was at this point in the message that I began to feel that Rob and I read different Bibles, or at least that we read the same Bible very differently. The big idea of "the god's aren't angry" tour is that the God of the Bible isn't angry and, therefore, we're all okay, everybody is okay--we're all okay with God. Well, as I read my Bible I simply don't see this. My Bible tells of a God who rightfully remains angry, angry over sin. My Bible tells of a God who is so holy, glorious, just, and loving that he hates sin and is committed to doing away with sin. As I look around at a sinful, broken world, I find my only hope in the fact that my God is indeed angry at sin and has promised to do something about it.

I'll admit, I've pretty much stopped listening / reading / concerning myself with Rob Bell anymore. He is an excellent communicator, and I've certainly learned some interesting things from his preaching. But good preaching isn't just about good communication and telling people things they might not know about the cultural background of the Bible. It's all about the gospel. And on this, I agree with Justin--Rob Bell misses the point entirely.

Tuesday, November 13

Who Are You Voting For?

I don't usually dive into the realm of politics on this blog, but I thought this was a particularly good article by Randy Alcorn, recently posted on his blog (warning: it's kind of long, but well worth the read). Randy is responding to the recent endorsement of Rudy Giuliani by Pat Robertson. As you probably know, Giuliani is pro-abortion (among other issues that would normally put him at odds with evangelical Christians).

There are some people in the church who have decided that its better to vote for a man who supports aborting unborn children than to risk having Hilary Clinton elected President (assuming that Giuliani has the best chance of winning).

Here is Randy Alcorn's response to that line of thinking:

Giuliani said in his speech to the Values Voters Coalition (I read every word of the transcript this week), “People of good conscience come to different conclusions about whether abortions should be legal in some circumstances.”

Actually, those with a good conscience cannot believe in the evil that it’s okay to cut babies to pieces. They may be sincere, but if they are, then they are deceived. A conscience that is deceived can be earnest, but it cannot be good. Giuliani’s statement is no different than saying “People of good conscience come to different conclusions about whether it should be legal to kill toddlers in some circumstances.”

Let me respond to the people, including some who commented on last week’s blog, who are adamantly ABC (Anybody But Clinton). Here’s a quote:

Christian Conservatives must decide on who is best to beat Hillary. That is THE most important point. Huckabee is great, but he WILL not beat Hillary. Whomever wins the Republican nomination must be supported by ALL Republicans. If we step back because we don’t like the candidate we as Christians will be voting in Hillary Clinton. This CANNOT happen.

I mean no disrespect, but actually, yes, there ARE worse things than Hillary being elected. In my opinion, having to stand before God to answer for compromising biblical convictions and acting as moral hypocrites by voting for an unprincipled man who will not defend the innocent and care for his own family is far worse. God will not judge me in light of whether I’ve followed conservativism or promoted Republicanism, but as to whether I have honored my Lord Jesus.

Jesus said if we love Him, we should keep his commandments. These include His commandments about the sanctity of life. As Christians we need to ask ourselves, do we love Jesus more than we dislike Hillary Clinton?
I don't know about you, but when it comes time to vote, I think we all need to evaluate our support of candidates and the issues they support. Is my vote consistent with submission to my Lord? Again, even if we vote for a candidate who is likely to lose, what matters more in light of eternity? Republican victories or honoring Christ?

Piper on Young Adults

John Piper gives some suggestions for ministry to young adults in the church.

His reflections grow out of an article by Christian Smith on the emerging trend toward "adultolescents".

Friday, November 9

Justin Taylor on Adoption

Justin Taylor has a great little article on adoption this month.

Justin and his wife have adopted children, and he shares some wonderfully Biblical thinking on the question of the "real parents":

Fellow Christians will sometimes ask my wife and me if we know anything about our children's "real parents." We're also sometimes asked, "Do you have any children of your own?" Now we know what people mean when they ask these questions, and we also know that they are well-intentioned. But they are problematic nonetheless.

Russell Moore — dean of The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary and author of a forthcoming adoption manifesto — has drawn my attention to a parallel in the New Testament. He has written:

As I read through the Books of Ephesians and Galatians and Romans, it occurred to me that this is precisely the question that was faced by the apostle Paul and the first-century Christian churches.

As pig-flesh eating Gentile believers — formerly goddess-worshippers and Caesar-magnifiers and all the rest — began confessing Jesus as Messiah, some Jewish Christians demanded to know, "Are they circumcised?" The Gentile believers would respond, "Yes, with the circumcision made without hands, the circumcision of Christ." From the heated letters of the New Testament, it is evident that the response was along the lines of, "Yes, but are you really circumcised, and you know what I mean."

This was no peripheral issue. For the apostle Paul, the unity of the church as a household had everything to do with the Gospel itself. And where the tribal fracturing of the church was most threatening, Paul laid out a key insight into the church's union with Christ, the spirit of adoption.

In other words, these well-intended questions reveal that too many of us still accustomed to thinking that biology is more important than legality. The opposite of "real parents" is "fake parents." The opposite of "your own children" is "children not your own." There is something about "adoption" that makes us think that relationships are somehow less real.

But we must put on our gospel-centered glasses and ask ourselves: Am I really a child of God or not? Is God really my Father or not? Is Jesus really my brother? For those who trust in Jesus the answer is unambiguously Yes!

Even though I support adoption and recognize the spiritual parallels with my own life (as a spiritually adopted child of God) I had never really thought too deeply about it. I'm usually guilty of the very thing that Justin talks about in this article: I tend to think about adoption in a way that does makes the relationship "less real", giving priority to biology over legality. The questions he asks are really good for us all to consider: does my biological prejudice invalidate the very basis of my acceptance before God?

Thursday, November 8

Korean Kidnappings and STM

Christianity Today has a couple of resources and reflections on the aftermath of the Korean kidnappings. The first article gives a summary of the effect that this incident has had on the church that sent the team, both domestically and in the international community.

South Korea has been known for its zeal for missions; it sends out more missionaries than any other country except the United States. The country currently sends about 1,000 new missionaries every year, according to Steve Moon, director of the Korea Research Institute for Missions.

"At this point, it's hard to guess how it will affect the missionary movement quantitatively," Moon said. "Qualitatively, it will be an opportunity for growth in maturity. … Churches will need to think more strategically, and churches and missions will prepare better for short-term missions. Many people will maintain the same kind of enthusiasm, but what they need is wisdom and cultural sensitivity."

Park said that 20 of the South Koreans traveled to Afghanistan for a short-term trip to volunteer at a school and to provide medical aid. Three of the hostages were missionaries who had already been in Afghanistan when the group arrived.

In parts of the Middle East and Central Asia, unarmed aid volunteers are at high risk of being kidnapped or injured. They typically travel in very small groups and often with military or police escort. But this group traveled together on a conspicuous bus, without police or military escort. Furthermore, the driver was not carefully selected, since the hostages say he collaborated in the July 19 abduction.

Princeton University sociologist Robert Wuthnow told CT that most American short-term missions volunteers travel to relatively safe environments for relief work. In contrast, many South Korean churches are willing to send short-term groups to dangerous parts of the world.

In a separate article, CT gives the results of a survey of prominent missions leaders. I wasn't surprised as much by the answer to the first question--"Should churches send short-term mission groups into dangerous or closed countries?". 46% responded yes, under certain conditions. Another 27% gave an unqualified yes. I was a bit surprised by the answer to the second question: "When such groups go and suffer persecution, how should their government respond?". 43% of the respondents expected the government to step in.

I'm certainly not against government help, but I was a bit surprised that people expect the government to do something. As citizens of a country, people surely have certain rights, even when they travel abroad. But I don't know if I would expect the government to intervene if I knowingly went somewhere to serve the cause of Christ. Would I receive such help? Certainly. But I wouldn't expect it.

For the most part, I agree with the other respondents. I think short-term trips to closed or dangerous countries are acceptable, given certain conditions. I certainly support the church going to those countries--after all, that's the point, isn't it? But I'm not as certain about the wisdom of short-term trips to those countries. In certain cases, under certain conditions, I would support such trips. But I think we also have to check our motives, to make sure that we are acting in response to a call from the Lord, and not a romantic notion of missions that we've created in our heads. In general, I'm much more in favor of long-term missions to closed countries than short, two-week to 6 month types programs.

That said, I thought the final article, a CT editorial, made a great point. We live in such a messed up world. After the kidnapping ordeal was finally resolved, guess who was blamed for it all... It's not the Taliban or the kidnappers. Instead of blaming the people who did this evil, the church is taking the blame. It's "their own fault" for being there, in a sense... Crazy, isn't it?

The world will never understand our real motive for missions, but that should not affect our response to the call of Christ.

Any thoughts?

Tuesday, November 6

3 Day Roundup

I haven't had much time to read any news over the past three days, so here are a few things worth noting (you may disagree, but it's my blog).

1. There is a new X-Files movie coming out! I know, the X-Files have been off the air for years, but I confess to being a fan of the series. I hate to think of it now (these were the pre-TV on DVD or Netflix days) but I religiously taped every weeks episode on VHS for a few years. I think I threw them out eventually. Anyway...the new flick is coming out next summer.

2. A few weeks ago I posted a clip of a Bob Newhart sketch on counseling. It was a tongue-in-cheek mocking of certain counseling approaches (Dr. Laura, Dr. Phil, etc.). I was pleasantly surprised to see that David Powlison of the CCEF has commented on the video and responded to some objections. His insights are helpful for anyone interested in what is really good and bad about cognitive-behavior theory (which is incredibly popular among counselors--especially secular-trained "Christian" counselors).

3. Since I now have a 3 month old son and am half way through teaching a class on Shepherding a Child's Heart, I'm always looking out for wisdom on sharing the gospel with kids. This post from Pulpit Magazine was helpful.

4. Some of you may have followed the recent online controversy between John Piper and David Instone-Brewer on the topic of divorce. Time Magazine recently picked up on the controversy and has an insightful article. The final paragraph shows an unusual amount of discernment for a magazine like Time:

Still, the controversy suggests that even the country's most rule-bound Christians will search for a fresh understanding of scripture when it seems unjust to them. The implications? Flexibility on divorce may mean that evangelicals could also rethink their position on such things as gay marriage, as a generation of Christians far more accepting of homosexuality begins to move into power. (The ever-active Barna folks have found that 57% of "born-again" Christians age 16-29 criticize their own church for being "anti-homosexual.") It could also give heart to a certain twice-divorced former New York mayor who is running for President and seeking the conservative vote. But that may be pushing things a bit.
Andreas Kostenberger summarizes some of the previous discussion on this topic and adds (what I consider to be) a helpful perspetive.

5. Finally, here is a great video of Paul Washer on the problems with Joel Osteen.

My Blog Reading Level

Thanks to Marc for pointing out this fun little site that tells you the reading level of your blog.

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I guess my blog isn't really geared to kids. :)
At least you know that you can read at a college level!

Friday, November 2

Pendulum Swings

A few years ago, Ajith Fernando came to our church and spent the weekend teaching and preaching and sharing the Scriptures with us. I was blessed and encouraged to meet him and to learn from him. Shortly after that, I had the joy of going through his book, Jesus Driven Ministry, with three of the interns from our church. What a wonderful book for those in ministry! I would highly recommend it.

More recently, Ajith has just written a wonderfully balanced and insightful article on some of the "pendulum swings" we find in evangelicalism. Most notably, the recent trend toward social justice--often at the expense of proclaiming the gospel with words.

Ajith writes:

But lately some disconcerting trends—more course corrections, if you will—have left me feeling uneasy. I hear evangelicals talking a lot about justice and kingdom values but not proclaiming the gospel to those of other faiths and winning them for Christ. Of course, if someone asks them about Christianity, they will explain the gospel. Thus, some people will be converted to Christ through their witness.

But that is a woefully inadequate strategy. Most of the billions of people in the world who do not know Christ will not come and ask us. We need to take the initiative to go to them.

I'll admit that about 8 years ago, as I was just finishing up seminary, I was really excited about the renewal of interest in matters of social justice, AIDS advocacy, etc. It's still a good thing for the church to be involved in caring for the outcasts, the fatherless, and bringing the mercy and love of God to people in physical, tangible ways. But more and more it seems like the church is following the culture on all this--and culturally it's hip and cool to get involved and make a difference...even American Idol does it!

Ajith makes a great point about all of this:
However, we must remember that today our society has accepted AIDS ministry and social development as attractive avenues of service. Evangelism will never have that attraction. Those wanting to follow Christ in seeking and saving the lost will always be despised for their supposed arrogance.
While it may be cool in our culture to end poverty and wear clothes to help fight AIDS or buy a CD to plant a tree--it's not cool to tell people that they need Jesus and he is their only hope of escaping the wrath of God.

People don't usually like to hear that they are sinners and that their greatest need in life is not food, clothing, or shelter, but forgiveness and mercy.

Evangelism isn't popular. And it probably never will be.

Again, Ajith makes a great point about the priority of evangelism, while retaining a holistic approach:
Yes, we are called to be holistic. But part of holistic Christianity surely is the statement of Christ that all earthly gain is worthless if a person loses his life to eternal destruction. The stark fact of lostness places before us the urgency of evangelism. No, such thinking is not common in some evangelical circles today. A theological faculty member of a university in Europe held a seminar a few years ago to discuss one of my books. One of the presenters, an evangelical scholar, faulted me for using the supposedly confusing term "lostness" when referring to those who do not believe in Christ.

As for me, I will do all I can to encourage people to live the Christian life in society. But I will also follow Christ's example in placing before Christians the fact of eternal damnation and the glory of eternal salvation.

Amen, brother! There really is a priority here. Why? Because this life is really just a prelude to the real deal--eternity. In the words of Christ: "For what will it profit a man if he gains the whole world and forfeits his life? Or what shall a man give in return for his life?" (Matt. 16:26).

We can give people everything the world has to offer, but who can give them eternal life?

Thursday, November 1

Caspian Teaser